Top Ten Tips on How To Be A Good Dad

Nothing touches the heart more deeply than hearing, "I love you Daddy." I have heard that the gift of happiness belongs to those who unwrap it. Your children are that gift. Be an active, participating dad. The years fly by too quickly to do otherwise.

1. Cease "put downs" directed toward the child/children and other people living in the home.
   
2. Never compare one sibling to another

3. Give as many hugs as possible, especially at the beginning and end of each day.

4. When disciplining, be calm, clear, firm, fast and fair.

5. Listen to the meaning behind the words your children say. What do they feel?

6. Teach that every behavior has consequences, both good and bad.

7. Encourage strength, positivity, helpfulness, humor and compassion by role modeling.

8. Encourage open communication, humor and actively listen.

9. Make time to say, "I love you."

10. Be there to share quality time with your child/children.

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LEN BRASS IS THE AUTHOR OF CHILDREN FIRST: A COMPLETE GUIDE FOR PARENTING THROUGH THE ELEMENTARY SCHOOL YEARS. LEN IS A SAN JUAN CAPISTRANO, CALIFORNIA RESIDENT, A 26-YEAR SCHOOL EDUCATOR AS WELL AS A LECTURER, BUSINESS MEDIATOR, AND FATHER OF FIVE.